We must have heard these words from our
parents and relatives at least a million times while growing up.
parents and relatives at least a million times while growing up.
“Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge”.
These four people changed our whole
society. The way we think,the way we grow or the way we should not grow.
society. The way we think,the way we grow or the way we should not grow.
These four people are responsible for our evolution,
what we want or what we should want.
what we want or what we should want.
Now lets quickly capitulate what these four
people are looking for:
people are looking for:
1)
You cannot sleep till 10:00 AM
because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
You cannot sleep till 10:00 AM
because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
2)
You cannot dress as you want
because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
You cannot dress as you want
because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
3)
You should take bath everyday
because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge. I really don’t know why somebody
will want to see me while I am in shower.
You should take bath everyday
because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge. I really don’t know why somebody
will want to see me while I am in shower.
4)
You cannot remain bachelor for
long time or say till you turn 26 and onwards because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya
kahenge.
You cannot remain bachelor for
long time or say till you turn 26 and onwards because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya
kahenge.
5)
You should only become a Dr. or
Engineer otherwise “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
You should only become a Dr. or
Engineer otherwise “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
6)
You cannot go for an inter
caste marriage because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
You cannot go for an inter
caste marriage because “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
7)
You should try to be look more
fair otherwise “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
You should try to be look more
fair otherwise “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
8)
You should come in top 3 in
your school or “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
You should come in top 3 in
your school or “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge.
Even after marriage these four people
didn’t leave you.
didn’t leave you.
First three points are common as above.
There is not much of a difference when it comes to mother and wife.
There is not much of a difference when it comes to mother and wife.
Rest other points are
1)
We cannot travel on bikes
otherwise “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge”.
We cannot travel on bikes
otherwise “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge”.
2)
We should travel at least twice
every year or “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge”.
We should travel at least twice
every year or “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge”.
3)
We need to always look our
happy best or “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge”.
We need to always look our
happy best or “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge”.
4)
We need to remain within a
certain waist diameter or “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge”.
We need to remain within a
certain waist diameter or “Chaar log dekhnge to kya kahenge”.
These four people are responsible for what
I am today. I never saw these 4 people in my life, who are they where did they
come from and where did they go. These questions troubled my mind from childhood.
I am today. I never saw these 4 people in my life, who are they where did they
come from and where did they go. These questions troubled my mind from childhood.
After all the troubles I went through as a
kid to search for these four people really made my life hell. Scarred me
forever. I still search for these “Chaar log” even on facebook.
kid to search for these four people really made my life hell. Scarred me
forever. I still search for these “Chaar log” even on facebook.
They are like my pseudo parents as they have
always been silently telling me what I should do what I should have become what
I want.
always been silently telling me what I should do what I should have become what
I want.
And
for long I suffered, but like all Hindi movie hero I started my quest. The quest of finding his lost parents, kumbh mein bichde bhai….. (background music please.)
for long I suffered, but like all Hindi movie hero I started my quest. The quest of finding his lost parents, kumbh mein bichde bhai….. (background music please.)
Yes I am a big fan of all kind of Hindi
movies (Any certificate and grade) ask my wife.
movies (Any certificate and grade) ask my wife.
After two decades of searching I finally could
not find these four guys. I used all my engineering, analytical and managerial
skills in my pursuit.
not find these four guys. I used all my engineering, analytical and managerial
skills in my pursuit.
Keeping in mind their ever elusive nature and their
secrecy they can be considered be spies, special agents or much better secret
service (my personal favourite KGB).
The article is written by husband dearest who can be contacted on twitter at Vikas_Agarwal18
Shri Shri Vikas Baba
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Absolutely bang-on target. If only we could send our respective char-logs on a one-way trip to ‘Neverland’. Nice read!
True true sakshi if only…
Bolo Shri Vikash Baba ki Jai !! 🙂
These 4 log have done damage to most of Indian lives .. i believe.. mostly the semi – urban , the ones who wanted to see kids in convent schools and become engineers and docs and i recall collector(god knows what to collect) and yet wanted those desi rituals not to left at the backyard.
I killed these 4 log long back when i decided to shave off my moustache ! 😀 .. and then pierced by ear… got tattoed …got a carved physic(thats history on the abdomen side 🙂 )… I did all these char log would hate …
nice read Vikash !
Aahhh jack I am more interested in a post where you put up a picture of you now only.. Description seeems to quite intrigue me now 😀 😀
ये चार लोग और कोई नहीं, काम, क्रोध , लोभ और मोह है और उनसे बचना है.
Bilkul sahi Rakesh ji bilkul sahi..
Love your sense of humour.
Thanks tomichan… Compliment will be communicated 🙂
yar….these char log screwed my happiness too….
the one thing i wanna say “to be with what eva we desire to be with things and envoirment of our choices we always have to pay something”
like bearing criticism and all or have to face hatred of our love once…
True roshan we all face such things..
Aisa kalyug Aaayega,
Chaar loh Bhaag Jaayega 🙂
Haha jahid good one 🙂
That’s wonderful write laced with humor.
Thanks Easwar 🙂
Hilarious…i suppose ‘Char log’ has been the hidden enemies that has been tormenting over the years…and it’s time for Sherlock to get hold of these ‘char log’ and put them on trials…for harassing you for so long…!!!
most definitely these chaar log have been the reason behind 90 percent of world’s wars I wud think 😀 😀
Not a laughing matter this, these “Chaar log” have really made life difficult for most of us…Loved this humorous write-up…
That’s true these chaar log have made us look at our own lives differently.. Thanks for the appreciation
A very serious matter has been presented in a humorous way. And these 4 people have really suffocated our lives, the way we want to live and things we want to do…
But we have to let go of these chaar log.
oh loved this post!
Thanks kislaya and yes we have to let go off these chaar log..
Hilarious,nice post.
Agar hum ye sochen ki log hamare baare mein kya sochte hain ,to log kya sochenge???????
Unhen sochne do jo bhi wo sochte hain.
exactly and that how we all need to think to remain happpy forever 🙂
I love this post of yours!
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Keep writing and spreading the joy! 🙂
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thank you ssoooo much girlie 🙂 love ya. and now keep blogging 🙂
These chaar log have a lot of impact on my mother’s life. Sacchi!! She’s always talking about these chaar log and whatever they will kahenge… 😛
This post needs to be shared ya know… 🙂
hehe Yes I know how mothers are 😀
haha, it was funny.. made me smile.. still I could not smile with teeth popping out of lips because I felt mujhe aise haste dekh lia toh chaar log kya kahenge 😀
PS: I feel I have seen ur hubby somewhere..cant remember, where… poor memory.. 🙁
i felt it would show my google pic alongside hehe
hehe yes chaar log have an opinion on all points! I wonder where you have seen him, he is usually never revealing his RAW identity to people 😀 😀
haha, shayad chaar logo k beech me dekha hoga maine.. thats y I cant remember exactly 😀
well okay it just flashed in my mind, my hindi teacher of school time, Mr Jeetendra singh looks like him.. nose aur lips toh kuch jyada hi milte hain.. 😀
ye wahi char log hai jo aapko jeete ji Kandha De rahe hai …!!!
Haha! Bang on! Let me know if you find them 😉
Bang on Richa ! Hilarious 🙂
Hilarious Richa!! I am using this post link in my blog post without asking first …here at https://sunshineandblueclouds.blogspot.in/2014/07/has-reading-reduced.html
but will remove it if you are not oaky with it. 🙂