I am a little nervous a little disturbed everything around me is getting all weird. girls living in my pg are all planning to get married they are engaged affianced or all set to get, their conversations have changed from “lets go for a party” to “I need to ask him first”. they were like me 22 23 year olds having fun being in relationships having boyfriends to fret over… friends to party with …. shopping freak who wroshipped sales and survived on shopping bags. what happened suddenly things are changing they are changing they are suddenly these to be wives who know their responsibilities and stuff
the most close encounter i had of this kind was none other but my roomates cousin who is only 6 months elder to me. she had a life i could only dream of larger than life party circle… awesome friends, relationships i would die for.. education i wished for everything… if i was in her place i would be dreaming big getting a higher than skies career but zonked evrything over.. she returns home and gets affianced by her own free will- no pressure. what world have we come to are we still the generation Y or are we still unsure. do we still want a fallback option and be happy with it
but al this disturbs me a lot a lot…… sometime back i knew these twin sisters who were really cool atleast 15 years elder to me they were like me today they had dreams career ambitions everything, one of them got married when she was earning as much as 50k a month at that time, the other refused to get married if the guy asked for a dowry. finally both are settled and have a ravishing career. now i believed in them i am them i thought with time we would change we girls would become like them. but suddenly i am enthrusted with such episodes no we have not changed we are still looking for the solace of a guy…. we are still looking for a rich guy to get settled with not a career…… u know here i feel we are the hypocites not the guys… we say we are liberated but we dont feel… we are not subjugated by others we are subjugated by our ownself we are what we are becoz of our own thinking
its a very arbit article i just wrote what came to ma mind may not make much sense
no it really makes sense i think it is really nice ….
thanku thanku its just random thoughts not a very planned article
As they say, there is a certain age for everything. Freaking out, partying etc. has a certain age, some cross over to the next stage of life before others, some after others, but eventually everybody does, and if they don’t I’m sure they’re missing something, and they themselves feel it time and again but don’t admit it.
dont really know but as a 22 year old seeing ppl my age entering tht age is a lil weird
Hey, i was going thru the same phase once,but later i realised that it was more fun to be single while it lasted! Someone around you will always be getting married! Dont worry, enjoy ur single life now, you may never get such moments after marriage.
Good post!
nice blog!!!
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PS:if possible kindly remove the word verification thing in posting comments.it makes the process cumbersome.
@disha i know what ur saying
@surya thanks man and also for the advice i will remove it
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y dun u take megha out of ur mind and it would be for ur own good if you stop judging people on the basis of the parameters you have set in your life cause everybody is different and have different priorities..so just let it be okay
chill wht the hell is wrong with u heylooo
it was what i feel ever1 hs a right to their opinion i never criticized her did i i just wondered